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CORINTHIANS 13

Love is patient, love is kind.
It always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails.

And now these three remain:
faith, hope and love.


But the greatest of these is love.

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Friday, January 16, 2009

Solace for Many; and oh, so true:

A Child Loaned
'I'll lend you for a little time
A child of Mine,' He said,
'For you to love the while he lives,
And mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years
Or twenty-two or three,
But will you, till I call him back,
Take care of him for Me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you,
And should his stay be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories
As solace for your grief.''
I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth return.
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.
I've looked this wide world over
In my search for teachers true.
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes,
I have selected you.
Now will you give him all your love,
Not think the labor vain,
Nor hate Me when I come to call
And take him back again?'
I fancied that I heard them say,
'Dear Lord, Thy will be done,
For all the joy Thy child shall bring,
The risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've known,
Forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for him,
Much sooner than we planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes,
And try to understand.'
~ Edgar Guest ~

Families fighting for Caregivers

a group I'm trying to get growing called Familes Fighting for Caregivers. I started this blog from the beginning to advocate and share about my life as a mother to a severely physically challenged, totally dependent now almost 24 year old. Several of my blog posts relate somehow to life in the midst of very special individuals who are such a part of ourselves, our lives, our spirituality. Anyone interested, please share the info for how to connect with our group on Facebook. Families Fighting for Caregivers Global Basic Info Type: Common Interest - Families Description: support network for individuals and families who care for special needs family members at home NEEDING ADVOCATES TO CHANGE REGULATIONS/HOURS FOR HOME CARE PROVIDERS AND RESPITE REGULATIONS!!! These families need time to function outside of constant care demands with little to no flexibility given by agencies, that claim to be community based programs........it is time for change that works for us and for our 'challenged' love ones, and does not dictate how or when we can use hours of assistance and who that assistant is for a particular family.....we need CHOICE and Greater FLEXIBILITY and freedom to enjoy some life outside of overwhelming constant, exhaustive demands of extremely dependent individuals because alternatives are poor at best for young adult, especially physically challenged, children of families often caught being caregivers to elderly parents at the same time, severely sandwiched between continuing and often constant basis supervision. WE are the ones giving care to everyone but our marriages and ourselves. Contact Info Annette Monts Falls Email: Annette4clay@aol.com Location: Chapin, SC